Steven Zahm@ Jessica
First, this kind of concerns me a bit; “I have Connections (AppleBrides version)“. This indicates that someone altered the Connections plugin which make me wonder if the cMap template was modified too. If these were both modified, then there is no the updated cMap would even work for you. What version of Connections does it say?
You best option just might be to restore cMap from one of your site’s backups. If you do not have one, your web host might be able to help to restore it. If they want to restore your whole site. Ask them how old the backup is first. If it is old, then you could lose data in WP.
The next best option is to to purchase a license for cMap. My best guess is the previous owner was Mark S. The license would have been expired at this point and would have been renewed anyway. The risk here is that there is no guarantee that it’ll work because there is no way for me to know if Connections or cMap was altered on your site.