@ Timothy
I’ve installed Better WP Security on my testing site on a production server and it works fine together as I would expect since the Widget Pack is just widgets using code already in use by the core Connections plugin. Still sounds like a memory issue to me. It is possible to set PHP memory limit but the host have a “hard” limit that is lower than the set limit and PHP would still report the set limit rather than the hard limit … hope that makes sense!
I suggest checking w/ them to see what exactly you memory limit is.
Also, can you attached me a screen capture of the Better WP Security Dashboard admin page? I’ll setup my test installation to match yours as closely as possible to make sure they is not some weird conflict with a specific setting within Better WP Security. Please include the System Info section too.
Did you try leaving Better WP Security active and deactivate other plugins to see if the result is reproducible?
