08/18/2013 at 6:28 pm #267465
It sounds like you might have granted your users to many permissions. A user set with the “Subscriber” role will generally only be able to see the Dashboard and their WordPress profile page. Even with Connections and Link installed you specifically have to grant the Subscriber the permission to view the Edit My Directory page as it is not shown by default. The user would simple see a notice that they do not have permission to see the page.
Make sure your users do not have a role other than Subscriber and on the Connections : Roles admin page make sure the Subscriber has permission to Edit their entry with moderation.
Hope that helps.