[Steven Zahm]

@ Bill

This can be done with hooking into the cn_family_relation_options filter. Sample code:

add_filter( 'cn_family_relation_options', 'my_family_relation_options' );

function my_family_relation_options( $options ) {

    unset( $options['husband'] ); // remove option
    $options['head-of-household'] = 'Head of Household'; // add new option
    return $options;
}

The options are found here:

https://github.com/Connections-Business-Directory/Connections/blob/8.10/includes/settings/class.options.php#L349

Hope this helps!