@ William
re: Why is the Family option not on the cn-entry-type div in the SUBMIT form.
Also does not show up when edit the record?
Form does not support the creating of families. Families can only be created in the admin by admins. This is done for security and privacy. If it were available, anyone could add any other in the directory as a family member.
re: Also why are the NAME fields not showing up when editing the entry for family?
Do you mean the first/last name fields? If so, this is because a family does not have a first or last name, it has a family name.
re: They do when creating a new record, but not on the edit.
Only when the entry type is set as an individual, when you switch the entry type to a family, the first/last name fields are not available.
Hope that answers your questions thoroughly!