As explained in my reply in the other thread… you use add the shortcode only once. All the advanced shortcode options are adding to the one shortcode. That said the correct usage is:
[connections template='tile-plus' show_addresses=true list_type='family']
Oh, something that I have not said… the order of the options so not matter. Just in case you might have been thinking that is does.
Hope that further clarifies how to use these advanced options.